The A-B-Cs Of Job References

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One element of the hiring process that hasn’t gone completely digital these days is the professional reference. Two people are going to talk about you at your request and what they discuss matters. Just like you can win a job in the interview room, you can lose one during the reference check. 

When potential employers do a reference check, the expectation is the feedback will be positive (why else would you provide the reference?). If a hiring manager speaks to one of the references you provide and the conversation begins with, “I don’t know why [insert your name here] would give me as a reference,” then you’re in trouble. It shows you didn’t contact the reference, which is lazy, and that you lack good judgment because you’ve left yourself open to negative feedback. Loose lips sink ships and, in this scenario, you are the ship.


1.     Do Personal Job References Matter?

Yes. References are your opportunity to present your best professional self through the praise of professional peers. Every reference should be a home run. Your potential employer wants to hear about how great you are and the game is rigged in your favor. It should be an easy test to pass. Not passing matters.

 

2.     Do Potential Employers Really Check The References?

More often than not, yes, so expect references to be checked. Whether it’s perfunctory or a deep dive, your references will be checked. Many online job applications include sections for references and you’re not even able to submit the resume until you fill it in. That’s not an accident. Be just as diligent about your reference’s contact information as you would proofread your resume. Make sure everything is up to date.

 

3.     Should I Automatically Provide References To An Employer?

No. If you’re not required to provide references on a written application or online submission, you may, but are not required, to provide references. However, it does not hurt to include the perfectly acceptable “References available upon request.” That signals your willingness (a good sign) but you can defer to the employer’s requirements.

 

4.     How Do I Line Up References?

Your goal is to know your reference will provide positive feedback so, first and foremost, only choose people who you know will do that. The first line should be any current (if possible) or past partners/managers/supervisors. Nobody is going to complain that your former boss has agreed to be a reference. That telegraphs confidence in the outcome and should be followed by a glowing reference (see #1). If for whatever reason you don’t want to reach out to those people, your second line should be co-workers with whom you collaborated the most. Contact your top three and ask them if you may use them as a reference. Unless company policy prohibits providing references most people will agree. Confirm contact information.

 

5.     How Do I Know What A Reference Will Say About Me?

It is your job to know what your references will say about you. If you don’t, you may end up with the dreaded, “I don’t know why [insert your name here] would give me as a reference” or worse. Don’t just ask someone to be a reference. Don’t assume that an agreement to be a reference is the guarantee of a good reference. Have a dialogue with them about what a good reference means. Nobody is going to fault you if you call up an ex-manager and say straight up, “[Insert person’s name here] Will you be a reference for me and I need it to be a good reference.” Something like that should get the dialogue going.

 

6.     Are Reference Letters Useful?

In Europe, letters are more common than in the United States, where as on this side of the Atlantic you should expect a phone call or email to the referring party. The standard list of references is their names and contact info so the recruiter or hiring manager can reach out to them. If someone takes the time to write a reference letter for you that is beyond the call of duty and you can apply it at your discretion. It’s not going to hurt you in any way to use that, but it would be a little bit out of the ordinary. You may consider the language, “Reference Letter Available Upon Request,” and go from there.

Bonus Career Insider Tip: Reference check calls are typically very straightforward and usually just a few minutes.


Philip Roufail contributed to this article.

Scott Singer is the President and Founder of Insider Career Strategies Resume Writing & Career Coaching, a firm dedicated to guiding job seekers and companies through the job search and hiring process. Insider Career Strategies provides resume writing, LinkedIn profile development, career coaching services, and outplacement services. You can email Scott Singer at scott.singer@insidercs.com, or via the website, www.insidercs.com.

Navigating the Job Interview Disaster: From "Titanic" Moments to Unexpected Opportunities

The Titanic. The Hindenburg. Chernobyl. Your last job interview. What do these events share? They were disasters, and while the first three have major historical significance, when you’re in a job interview that’s going south it feels just as significant as any boat, blimp, or power plant. Unfortunately, job interviews do not start with an attendant instructing you on what to do in case of an emergency water landing.

We’ve all had interviews that are indistinguishable from an episode of Squid Game. Everything seems normal at first, then bad vibes seep in, followed by confusion, awkward answers to weird questions, and then suddenly you’re being eaten by giant COVID-carrying rats.

Okay, that last part may be hyperbole, but when the primary interviewer leaves the room to put something in the mail and returns with just enough time to say goodbye (true story) it may be an ugly sign that your time, effort, hopes, and dreams have just been wasted. Cue the sinister music. Roll credits.

Good news: since a lot of interviewing is now conducted by uncaring, unfeeling, AI-driven machines, you really only need to worry about interviews going seriously wrong when you’re dealing with those pesky humans. Bad news: pesky humans are a dime a dozen and some enjoy feeding job candidates through a meat grinder for fun (true story).

Is it possible to turn a bad job interview around? Maybe. Can you pull the plug with dignity? Maybe. Has anyone ever gotten a job offer after a definitive interview calamity? Yes. Believe it or not, that happens. Let’s explore your options when the lifeboats drop.

  1. Take a deep breath. According to that great sage Yogi Berra, “It’s not over until it’s over.” Once you’re sure a disaster is unfolding, remember that it could go on for an indeterminable amount of time. You’re in the room and you’re not going anywhere until they say the interview is over. You may have time to pivot. Don’t lose hope quite yet. Even if you slam into every hurdle, you can finish strong. 

  2. The opposite happens, too. You may be confident you’re acing the interview but you’re not. You may be the frog slowly boiling in the water. Even if you believe things are going well it’s to your benefit to read the faces of the people sitting across from you. If they look like they’re in pain, or checking their Apple watches for text messages, it may not be going as well as you believe. Read the room and proceed accordingly.

  3. Take a straightforward approach. If the energy in the room feels like a tree sloth taking a nap, try and boost it by meeting it head-on. Ask pointed questions that not only change the direction of the conversation but allow you to more accurately gauge your position. For example, “Can you tell me what your ideal candidate is for this job?” and adjust based on the answer. Or, if you don’t want to wait around for a job offer that’s never coming, “Am I a viable candidate for this job?” You may find you are viable and maybe even ideal. Or they may just say, “It’s not you,” and you can move on.

  4. Let loose. What do you have to lose? If you really know you’re crashing and burning, experiment with your interview skills. Don’t pull a shaker out of your pocket and start whipping up martinis, but you can be more liberal with your approach. If anything works, it may soften the crashing and lessen the burning and you’ll have a great line, story, or point to bring out at your next and hopefully way better interview. If nothing else, it’s practice. Like an emergency fire drill.

  5. You never know what is going to happen. Keep in mind – no matter how bad a job interview actually is, you have no idea what is happening behind the scenes. You may walk out of the building and want to throw yourself in front of a bus, but a week later you’re back in the room for salary negotiations. This happens more than you think and the reasons are usually simple: an internal candidate decides to remain in their current position; a seemingly preferred candidate fails the background check in spectacular fashion; someone accepts the job offer and then backs out; the new hire never shows up for their first day or any day after that, or, worse, they do show up and it’s clear to all a terrible mistake has been made. Bada bing, bada-boom, suddenly you’re at the top of the list.

  6. You could get an offer for a different job. Once again, this happens. Your interview may have been lacking and, in fact, you may actually be lacking the requisite skill sets to perform the job, but you’re perfect for another open position down the hall. You’re unexpectedly called in for another round with new people from a different department and that interview turns into a big love fest.

  7. Your catastrophic interview was a blessing in disguise. It takes two to tango. If the interview is a flop the fault may lie with the (pesky) people doing the hiring and not the fact that you couldn’t draw out advanced database architecture on a whiteboard (true story). If you’re treated poorly in an interview, think about how you’ll be treated when you’re collecting a paycheck. Sometimes it shouldn’t work out and life just allowed you to peek behind the curtain.

  8. Something else may be going on. Your interviewers are people, too, and that comes with real people problems that may have them preoccupied. That person sitting across from you peppering you with questions may have just learned that their dog died, or that their son flunked out of school, or that their car may require a really expensive repair. You never know.

  9. Exit with grace. Sometimes a job interview is a clunker and there isn’t anything that is going to make the ship float, the blimp fly, or prevent the reactor core from melting down. You have no choice but to accept that bad things happen to good people. Always take the high road. Be professional. Thank everybody and then go home and write them thank you notes. Take another deep breath and prepare for the next one.


Philip Roufail contributed to this article.

Scott Singer is the President and Founder of Insider Career Strategies Resume Writing & Career Coaching, a firm dedicated to guiding job seekers and companies through the job search and hiring process. Insider Career Strategies provides resume writing, LinkedIn profile development, career coaching services, and outplacement services. You can email Scott Singer at scott.singer@insidercs.com, or via the website, www.insidercs.com.

Unlocking the AI Career Frontier: Prompt Engineering in the Age of Artificial Intelligence

There’s been a lot of recent completely justifiable panic over artificial intelligence (AI). This week CNN reported, “…the technology behind ChatGPT could make mind-reading a reality.”  A fake AI-generated photograph showing an explosion near the Pentagon posted on a “verified” Twitter account went viral and had to be debunked. Striking Writer’s Guild members demand producers pledge not to use AI to generate the content that is their talent, calling, and livelihood. AI is on the go. A couple clicks and it’s on your phone. AI is singing songs and picking stocks. Did I mention Artificial General Intelligence? This is not a joke. This is not science fiction. This is happening.

However, let’s remember that AI is powered by HI - human intelligence. We are still in charge. Until Skynet goes live, AI serves us and it’s time to take a more tempered and practical (and proactive) view of what’s going on. Soon, the feckless U.S. Congress will enter the fray with a slate of ineffective regulations written by the tech industry and we’ll all be paying through the roof to use AI. Meanwhile, AI is the wild west and it just rode into town at high noon with guns blazing.

Right now, there are two players in the new boomtown called AI. Townspeople thrust into the AI world as it roars in like a new train line, and the gunslingers of AI prompt-engineering. The beauty of AI-powered tools like ChatGPT is in their simplicity. It’s a one-step process. You ask a question – a prompt – in the same way you would ask a person and it returns content. However, results may vary. The content is only as good as the prompt. The better the prompt, the better the content. It’s simply that complex.

AI is out there for anyone to use. The more you use it, the better you become at prompting. Chances are your company is already exploring AI technology to accelerate its business goals and it’s only a matter of time until the memo goes out. Chances are greater that memo will be treated with the same warm and fuzzy feelings people get when they’re fired and asked to train their replacement before the door hits them on the way out.

Don’t Panic! Keep calm and embrace the prompt. Once your employer figures out a way AI can benefit the bottom line, like it or not you will need to learn how to use it just like any other application your company uses. Oh, and there may be mandatory training sessions and possibly a new cottage industry of certifications. The good news for the townspeople (this author included) is while Skynet may not be live, Promptnet is. The rise of AI isn’t occurring in a vacuum. Its supporting players are on every corner and in every saloon.

Want to learn the basics or master prompt engineering? YouTube, Coursera, and Udemy have many tutorials and courses to choose from. Or maybe PromptHero is more your speed, which offers courses and is also an online community. Learnprompting.org is another educational resource and online community. Just to name a few.

How about user-rated prewritten prompts? PromptHero, FlowGPT, and Prompts.chat got you covered. Want to buy and sell prompts? PromptBase and Prompt.AI are online prompt marketplaces. Just to name a few. Everybody is moving to boomtown and they’re making it easy for you to apply your human intelligence to learn artificial intelligence.

In the new rugged sexy world of AI prompt engineering, the most important buzzword is money. Money is why this previously non-existent skill is rolling off people’s tongues and into your newsfeed. BusinessInsider reported there was a job listing on Indeed.com for an AI prompt engineer with a salary of $335,000. For some reason, that got people’s attention.

Here are five facts sourced from a comprehensive overview of AI prompt engineering on PCMag.com. A link to the full article follows.

  1. AI Prompt Engineers write prompts to achieve best-of-class results from AI tools and/or write copy to test and teach AI systems.

  2. Currently, there are around 1000 job openings for AI-prompt engineers in the United States and around 200 of them pay six figures.  

  3. The immediate outlook for AI prompt engineers is stellar, but views on their long-term prospects range from ‘prompt-engineering will be a big percentage of jobs’ to ‘prompt engineering is a specialized skill now but will become obsolete’ as AI technology evolves and the system become auto-prompting.

  4. “AI whispering” is slang for prompt engineering because it’s more art form than science. Individuals with above-average writing skills have a head start. The better the prompt, the better the content.

  5. Writing is rewriting. Prompt engineers hone their prompts until they achieve the best results. This requires a mastery of language, rigor, and analytical skills.

Whether a gold rush that will fizzle out or the new literary masters of the Age of AI, prompt engineers are the latest rage. You can deep dive into this topic by reading PCMag.com’s excellent primer, “Weird New Job Alert: What Is an AI Prompt Engineer.


Philip Roufail contributed to this article.

Scott Singer is the President and Founder of Insider Career Strategies Resume Writing & Career Coaching, a firm dedicated to guiding job seekers and companies through the job search and hiring process. Insider Career Strategies provides resume writing, LinkedIn profile development, career coaching services, and outplacement services. You can email Scott Singer at scott.singer@insidercs.com, or via the website, www.insidercs.com.